The great minds of the Ancient World reflected on why men abandon their families. You can give a thousand and one reasons for each specific case, and at the same time, there may be a case when, under practically similar conditions, another man will not leave his family for anything. It is also possible to look at this problem from the point of view of astrology. For example, according to the Chinese horoscope, it turns out that some characters are especially predisposed to this and for each of them there is a unique list of reasons and provoking factors.
Bull
Theoretically, this is one of the most "family" characters. He wants his house to be a "safe haven" and the coziest place in the world where it smells deliciously of pies, children laugh, on holidays - relatives and friends gather. The bull is ready to work hard in order to provide household members with everything necessary for a comfortable, prosperous life. This sign is also gullible, faithful and gentle, although it does not know how to fervently express romantic feelings. But it is precisely this almost ideality that underlies the fact that the Bull, if something does not correspond to his ideas about what the family should be, begins to worry.
Most often, the reasons that prevent him from living happily ever after with his beloved include her disagreement with the role of a housewife or the inept performance of her duties. The desire of a woman to lead a secular life, when spouses are more friends and partners than two halves. He badly perceives the sign and delaying the birth of children. In fact, he is patient and ready to wait, he knows how to compromise. But the Bull still has its own critical list and if everywhere there are checkmarks in it, the collapse of the family cannot be avoided.
Rabbit
The representative of this sign finds in the woman a beautiful lady whom she wants to serve with knightly zeal. Creating a family with such a man is like a fairy tale. He foresees the desire and flatter that he forgets for the sake of his beloved friends and hobbies, gives everything that he has ...
The only misfortune is that Rabbit is a strong, ardent personality by nature. And falling headlong into love, he actually voluntarily begins to suppress himself. And this, of course, from the point of view of psychology, cannot lead to anything good. And over time, he begins to see in a woman the reason for his unfulfilled ambitions and failures, his boredom.
The only way out is to start pushing the Rabbit towards the previous marriage lifestyle in time, so that he sees in his wife not his captor, but his loving friend.
But it’s easy for a woman to be deceived and believe that it’s just that love has changed a person ... Rabbit’s impulsiveness leads to the fact that the gap is often accompanied by a vigorous clarification of the attitude and complaints for the inner circle about his victim’s position.
Goat
Goat - a nature that can passionately get involved. When love comes, spring blooms in his heart and nothing can stop it. The Milky Way and another bouquet of lilies of the valley will be thrown at the feet of the chosen one in February. However, it is the passion of nature that plays a cruel joke with the marriage of this symbol. After all, when the Goat understands that he knows his spouse very, very well, he can look at other objects that have not been studied and not conquered ... Naturally, at first it can only be at the level of interested views, but if the wife does not maintain the light of romantic interest in her husband, it threatens to become something big and not so safe. But to the honor of the Goat - this symbol simply does not know how to make a secret from his adventures for a long time. And depending on how warm, sincere relations he has with his wife, he can not only admit everything, but also not be in a hurry to go into solitary swimming. And it is important to note that cases are not excluded when the spouses manage to establish mutual understanding and trust. However ... anyway, there will still be some risk, and to exclude it it is on the woman’s shoulders that obligations to maintain passion will be placed on the model of the beginning of a love relationship.
Monkey
The formation of a new unit of society, that is, a family headed by it, is always a surprise for this very symbol. He quickly falls in love, drives things forward but ... far from always ready for the fact that there is not only flirt and romantic dreams, but also family life. In which the two have to work hard in terms of arranging life and relationships. When the first emotions subside and everyday life comes, the Monkey will slowly begin to feel sad. It’s a shame not to take responsibility for the family and scared to take it. The so-called candy-bouquet period seems to the symbol more and more attractive. Often, by the way, a woman can keep the Monkey, letting the man relax - lets go with friends, does not scold for easy flirting with other ladies ... But of course, a lot of nerves are spent on this. If the emotional attraction between the spouses is not ardent enough - over time, Obeyan will begin to look for shortcomings in her partner and tell herself that, of course, he hurried with his family. And the risk of breaking up friends is extremely small, because this man hides to the last what is accumulating in his heart and in his mind.
Boar
Speaking frankly - this is one of the most complex in character characters and in the sphere of marriage, of course, there are no exceptions. The picture is complicated by the fact that often the Boar enters into it because of pressure. For example, their relatives or the atmosphere of their inner circle, in which everyone has already acquired families for a long time. But the heart, as you know, you will not command. And thus, the fact that the sign takes care of the well-being of its home and politely takes care of the spouse, in some sense, is in vain to preserve the family. The secret of saving the cell of society is that a woman should become a close companion for Boar, those who support against all who infringe on his personality. This sign responds with all my heart with a warm appreciation for understanding, and there - not far from true love. However, in practice, it often turns out that when he marries on the principle “it should be for everyone”, the Boar once feels deeply miserable and decides to almost literally flee these relationships by fleeing.
